Achieving complete Sexual Fulfillment

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THE MALE SEX ORGANS

:THE FEMALE SEX ORGANS

:INTERCOURSE

:FOREPLAY

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POSITIONS FOR COITUS

:COITAL MOVEMENTS

:PROLONGING THE SEXUAL ACT

:TYPES OF ORGASM

:THE WOMAN'S ROLE IN INTERCOURSE

:ORAL AND ANAL SEXUALITY

Achieving complete Sexual Fulfillment

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Achieving complete Sexual Fulfillment

Types of Orgasm

The Experience of Orgasm

No one has ever entirely succeeded. For that reason, it seems futile for us to attempt such a description here. The orgasm is more than a sensation; it is an experience in which all of the body and mind participates.

There is one way, however, to discover if a woman has ever experienced sexual oral caresses to fulfillment in orgasm. Simply ask her. If she has, she is quite affirmative, without the shadow of a doubt. If she says no, or if she hesitates, or if she is not sure, she has never experienced orgasm. Once this all-pervading release has been experienced, it can never be mistaken for anything short of what it really is.

I was once told by a patient that she experienced an
vaginal orgasm every time her lover kissed her or fondled her body intimately. This statement was immediate proof that she had no idea of what an orgasm was really like. She undoubtedly felt a series of pleasant, perhaps quite passionate, sensations. It is also true that she may have felt them so strongly that the idea of any sensation stronger was incredulous to her. But she did not experience orgasm every time she was kissed or fondled lightly. What was more unfortunate in this case was the fact that her lover took her at her word and thought that he was performing quite satisfactorily. Neither of them could understand why this young woman, so much in love, breakdown. Fortunately, some re-education solved their problem. Her nerves were never better than after their relations led to complete sexual fulfillment for her on a fairly regular basis.

It might be interesting to have more men ask their wives, or the woman with whom they are setting up house, whether or not they regularly experience release during the sexual relationship. An experienced man, as we have mentioned previously, can always tell. But many men are not all that experienced. It might be interesting to them to find out this particular fact about their wife's sexual response. some women feel duty-bound to act out an orgasm to please the man- which it undoubtedly does until that one certain day when some tiny nuance proves to him that it has all been one big sham. A man can hate a woman for that, even if she has been acting "for him."

Therefore, if the woman is not being fulfilled in orgasm, the time to know it is soon., before all of the petty problems and strife (which somehow don't seem connected to the marriage bed at all) begin to erupt. A couple who are happy within the intimate relations of
marriage can weather all manner of material and emotional problems. When the cause of sexual difficulties is found and removed, the entire world looks brighter. Major areas of conflict fade into nothingness. A wife who does not have orgasm a reasonably high percentage of the time ( it is folly to state a figure; she knows what she needs and how often, better than anyone) should let her husband know in a tactful way, putting most of the blame on herself but expressing a wish to "get over her problem," and asking her husband to help her. Then, without any criticism of his technique, she should make her hidden desires doing this each time until she is fulfilled. It means, sometimes, that she must subtly become the leader during part of the relationship. But if she is successful in receiving the caresses she needs in the manner she needs them, she will automatically surrender into the bliss of orgasm when the time has come. She won't be able to help herself.

Continuous Orgasm